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responsibility of the United States Legislature to pass laws that
protect you and your children. Each law on the books has been passed
to fix a problem. There is no way to know how the new law will
affect the existing laws.
It is the responsibility of the Judge to protect the laws.
It is your responsibility to know the law, and protect your rights within the
law, or hire an attorney to protect your rights.
Since judges do not have the time to get to know the details of each
child custody case they will appoint an evaluator to take a
closer look at the specific circumstances. The judge's aim is
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make the best possible decision for the children, within the limits
of the law. A judge may place the entire decision of child custody
and visitation on the evaluator.
It is critical to your case that you know that; to your attorney,
the evaluator and the judge, you and your child are the job. It is
to your advantage if you present our case in the most clear and
concise manner possible.
This chapter has been created from the feed-back submitted by hundreds of
parents who have completed home study and evaluation. The Win
Your Child Custody War also contains ten reports completed by the
evaluators and presented in court.
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Chapter 28: Home Study & Evaluations |
Purpose for An
Evaluation
Types of Evaluations
Who and Why?
Attitude with the Evaluator
Mediators and Evaluators
Facing the Other Parent
When There Are Two of You
Home Study Contact Log
Sensitive to Control
How Important Are They?
Negative Information
Positive Information
What Are They Observing
Guidelines for Evaluators
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Confidentiality - Evaluator
If You Gotta Go
Make It Easier for Children
Positive and Negative
To Be With My Child
Evaluator's Report
What Costs are Involved?
Prepare for the Home Study
Book/Video of Child’s Life
Thirteen Evaluations
Letters from Family and Friends
Letters of Love
Letter to Document Violation
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Help from Hell
What Are They Looking For?
Evaluating the Evaluation
Data to Identify Concerns
Note To Evaluator
What Can Be Documented?
Hospital Visit List
Frequent Moving
Compare Apples to Oranges
Collateral Contacts List
Eliminate the Trash
Misuse of Evaluation
Flaws in the Process
Second Home Study
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Evaluating the Study
Objections
Due Process and Bias
Burden Shifting
Double or Triple Hearsay
Right to Fair Trial
Personal Values
Friendly Parent Concept
Relevancy
Speculative
Testing/Expert, Credibility
Hearsay
Filing a Formal Complaint
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First two pages of the chapter.
Chapter 28:
Home Study & Evaluations
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The process is called different things in
different places including:
730 Evaluation
Social Study
Home Study
Child Custody Evaluation
Family Assessment
Psychological EvaluationsPurpose for An Evaluation
The purpose of an evaluation is to: 1) identify
the motivations and behaviors that are causing an impasse in the
settling of the case; 2) assess the parenting abilities of the
individuals; 3) determine compliance with existing court orders; 4)
determine what child location would be most beneficial to the child;
5) determine if a fixed-schedule visitation would be beneficial to
the child.
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Less obvious observations will be made of
parental focus, boundaries, child issues versus parent issues and
reciprocal parent behaviors.
Types of Evaluations
Comparative Evaluation with Recommendation
The results of the evaluation may address issues
of each parent's competencies and interaction of the parent with the
child. The evaluator may make comparative statements about the
parents or offer recommendations about a custodial determination.
One-Sided Evaluation
The results of the evaluation may address issues
on parent's competencies and interaction of the parent with the
child. The evaluator may not make comparative statements about the
other parent or offer recommendations
about custodial determination.
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Opinions must be limited to the strengths and weaknesses of the one
parent.
Five other evaluations are:
Psychological Examination
Psychoeducational Assessment
Critique of a previous reportr
Review of relevant Literature
Amicus curiae (friend of the court) document
that takes a position on a particular issue
Court-Ordered Evaluation
It may be more advantageous to request a
court-ordered evaluation, rather than a privately obtained
assessment. All parties are compelled by the court to participate
with its ordered evaluation whereas, opposing parties may not
cooperate with a private evaluator. Evaluations are accomplished by
a combination of these methods:
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Two or three interviews
Scoring and interpretation of several
standardized personality and parenting tests
Reading background information
Telephone consultation with attorneys, social
workers, and collateral information sources
Observation of interaction between parent and
child
These create
Report preparation
Finished Reports with or without
Recommendations
Then court testimony may or may not be required.
Interview: By physical meeting with or
telephone contact with the adult principals in the child custody
dispute; the children that are the focus of the dispute; children
related; or who do or will have contact with these children; adults
that do have or will have contact with the parents or the children
themselves. Documents: may be accepted and considered
during the interview. Interview, as a method, is used extensively by
conciliation and home study evaluations.
Observation: In the evaluator’s facility
or the principal’s home, and may include the adult principals in the
child custody dispute; the children that are the focus of the
dispute; children related; or who do or will have contact with these
children; adults who do have or will have contact with the parents
or the children themselves. Observation is used extensively in
physical examination, psychological evaluation and home study.
Testing: In the evaluator’s facility, and
may include physical, chemical and/or psychological testing of the
adult principals in the child custody dispute; the children that are
the focus of the dispute; children related; or who do or will have
contact with these children; adults who do have or will have close
contact with the parents or the children themselves in the home.
Who and Why?
Evaluators are usually mental health
professionals with formal training and experience in family court
matters. Some evaluators are trained to do child evaluations, and
they only perform this service for the court. When the court wants
more information than the attorneys may wish to
present in court, evaluators are appointed.
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They
gather specific facts that might be compared to make a better
determination for the long-term welfare of the children. The
evaluator may wish to see the environments and speak to the people
influencing the welfare of your children. The product of the
evaluation will be a written report that will contain
recommendations as to placement of the children and visitation
schedule.
A good judge will appoint an evaluator to take a
closer look at the circumstances in the case. The judge's aim is to
make the best possible decision for the children, within the limits
of the law. A judge may place the entire decision of child custody
and visitation on the evaluator.
Judges usually give instructions and make
decisions in response to a request from one of the parties. A judge
can make a sua sponte decision on his own observation,
without a request made by any party involved in the proceedings,
such as to order testing or a change to a new court. It may be a
windfall or a problem for your case. Consult with your attorney
about the ramifications to your case and if any action can be or
should be taken.
One way to avoid these kinds of surprises is to
be well prepared. As an example: during the evaluation process make
sure your evaluator has information and knowledge about any special
challenges in your case such as:
Parental Alienation Syndrome = PAS
Malicious Mother Syndrome = MMS
Fulsome Father Syndrome = FFS
Bipolar Disorder = BPD
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder = OCD
Dissociative Identity Disorder = DID
Repressed Memory Disorder = RAD
Oppositional Defiant Disorder = ODD
The evaluator will attempt to determine how they
impact a child custody battle. You can protect yourself by making
sure the evaluator is well qualified and will adhere to guidelines
set forth by the American Psychological Association (APA).
Evaluators with the designations L.C.S.W., or M.S.W., should be
asked if they are aware of the APA guidelines and if there is a
written professional code of ethics to which he or she adheres. If
the answer is yes, request a copy of those ethics. If the answer is
no find a new evaluator. Prepare a list of qualified evaluators from
which the opposition may choose a name.
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Even if the evaluator is not licensed, they
probably operate within some sort of "standards of practice" or
"guideline." Any guideline that is not followed should be considered
reason to impeach the report or may even be a good basis for a civil
or malpractice suit.
Since the expertise of the mental health
profession has come to be relied upon by the courts, the opinion of
the forensic psychologist should only be based on information that
is in their records and available for inspection. If relevant
documents have been ignored, they may be evaluated at this time.
Transparency in child custody related work prevents information from
being used out of context during deposition and trial.
Attitude with the Evaluator
Be the first one to see the evaluator. Be on time
for your appointment. Make sure your appearance is neat, clean and
conservative. Be open and honest with the evaluator. The evaluator
is trained to hear what you say, understand what you mean, and read
your body language. He or she is trained to identify a hundred
different signals you give that you do not even know you are
sending. Do show a confident attitude. Listen attentively and
maintain eye contact when you are speaking to the evaluator.
Do not become frustrated if your children behave
in an unacceptable manner during the observation period. The
evaluator is more concerned with how you respond to your children
than with how good their manners are.
Have a clear image of what kind of parent you
are. The evaluator is less interested in a parent that works long
hours to keep a child in brand name clothes and state-of-the-art
toys. They want to see a parent who knows how the children are doing
in school, who their friends are, what stories they have this parent
read at bedtime and if the parent participates in the children’s
activities on a regular basis.
Identify your relationship with the children. The
evaluator knows that working parents often work harder at the
relationship with their children to compensate for the large blocks
of time the parent must be away from them.
Demonstrate how you capitalize on the time you do
have with your children.
Avoid overacting, interrupting, speaking too
fast, getting angry and arguing with the evaluator. Your motives
will be looked at in great detail. Any indication that a parent is
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