Killers & Boosters
(Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants)
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Custody Case Killers & Boosters
(Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants)
Like Chicken Soup for the custody case, "Attitude Adjustment" gave me a place to get some perspective. And like chicken soup you can take some when ever you need it because "It couldnt hurt and probably, it will help".
Nash Raeside, Long Island, NY My Kids Liked This Book As Much As I Did, August 12, 2004 Â Reviewer:P. E Foret "Dad Foret" (Nashville, TN) Lots to think about in a little book. I found my attitude did need adjustment. My kids helped me see thru some of my blind spots. I have taped 3" X 5" cards with some of this advice around the house. Good value. Â Like Chicken Soup for the custody case, "Attitude Adjustment" gave me a place to get some perspective. And like chicken soup you can take some when ever you need it because "It couldn't hurt and probably, it will help".
Nash Raeside, Long Island, NY Â I was handling my custody case like a diet. I would buy and read a book and use that system until the results seemed too slow or complicated, then dive full into yet another (book). I was frustrated and exhausted. 'Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants' helped me use the positive points from all I have learned and even profit from my failures.
Jim Newman Miami, FL Advice is usually given with the right intention at the wrong time. To make things worse most advice givers are offended when you don't jump to do what they tell you to do. 'Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants' offers you advice when you want it and are ready to hear it. You can act on what you have learned, mull it over or discard the advice all together without interference.
Jan M. Harrison Arlington, VA I carry Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants in my briefcase. I read it in low moments and feel recharged. It inspired me to overcome the negative thoughts I had been allowing myself to have. It reminded me of my gains and what is truly important in life.
James Gourmand Billings, MT Some of this information I already knew but hadn't considered in this situation. Most of this advice I had never heard at all. Until 'Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants' made it clear I couldn't use any of it. I laughed, cried, nodded and puzzled as to why I hadn't seen most of this myself. Now the fog is cleared and I can proceed.
Ralph Sprague Berkley, CA I needed something to bring me back from the crushing lows and unreliable highs that have thrashed my emotions for the past two years. 'Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants' has given me a touchstone to reality.
Clive Friedman Upper Sandusky, Ohio 'Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants' is small, its inexpensive and most often does more good than a long talk with a good friend because even your best friend doesn't really know how you feel or understand what is really happening.
Daniel Natural BC, Canada  Now I spend less time in a panic because I know what I run from and where I run to and why.
Tom Dewier near Ellis, KS Another Winner from Charlotte Hardwick, May 12, 2003
 Reviewer:Jackie Runge (Palm Springs, CA) I have all the books by this author. This small volume is huge on 'Right Think' especially when the people you love encourage you to 'Wrong Think'. It's amazing how vindictive your family and friends get when you are wronged. The instant pleasure of revenge is quickly replaced by pain you feel when you see the damage you have done to your own case. Killers & Boosters keeps you on the right path. Money well spent.  Encourages You To Look And Think In New Ways, March 19, 2003
Reviewer: A reader Read a listing and think about what it has to do with your child, or you, or your case, or the other parent. Some won't mean a thing to you. Others will remind you of things you already knew. Many will cause an attitude adjustment: a positive adjustment. It is a list of other people's sayings with many others put in by the complier. It is useful if you are engaged in custody litigation. Killers & Boosters is an opportunity to pull away from much of the anger, fear and frustration. It even helps you deal with many of the toxic emotions. Well worth the money. Â Thought provoking, April 28, 2002
 Reviewer:Robert Martin (On a ship, in your service.) No ... book is going to solve anyone's custody issues. This book helped me slow down and think about how I felt about things and how I was reacting. Well worth the money.  Just what I needed., April 13, 2002
Reviewer: A reader I love this kind of book. Short quotes and statements to make you think about what is really happening. It's small, it's inexpensive and it helps. Â Lots of help from a little bitty book!, April 11, 2002
Reviewer:Jodi Lincon (Firebird Lake, AZ) Don't expect this little book to solve all the problems you are having with your ex. It can't. It can help you adjust your attitude to better deal with the situations as they arise. I loved it. I shared it. I even give it as a gift to others going through the same things. I highly recommend it for what it is. Nothing more and nothing less. It gave me hope and a new attitude that has helped when nothing else did. Read it, you'll see. Â This book gave me a lot to think about., November 5, 2001
 Reviewer:Sam Lindonsa (Nags head, NC) I think this is a great little book. Amazon shipped me the 2000 edition and it came very fast. I have bought a lot of books and feel good if I learn something from them. With this book I learned something about myself. Well worth the money.I was handling my custody case like a diet. I would buy and read a book and use that system until the results seemed too slow or complicated, then dive full into yet another (book). I was frustrated and exhausted. Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants helped me use the positive points from all I have learned and even profit from my failures. Jim Newman Miami, FL
Advice is usually given with the right intention at the wrong time. To make things worse most advice givers are offended when you dont jump to do what they tell you to do. Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants offers you advice when you want it and are ready to hear it. You can act on what you have learned, mull it over or discard the advice all together without interference. Jan M. Harrison Arlington, VA
I carry Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants in my briefcase. I read it in low moments and feel recharged. It inspired me to overcome the negative thoughts I had been allowing myself to have. It reminded me of my gains and what is truly important in life. James Gourmand Billings, MT
Some of this information I already knew but hadnt considered in this situation. Most of this advice I had never heard at all. Until Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants made it clear I couldnt use any of it. I laughed, cried, nodded and puzzled as to why I hadnt seen most of this myself. Now the fog is cleared and I can proceed. Ralph Sprague Berkley, CA
I needed something to bring me back from the crushing lows and unreliable highs that have thrashed my emotions for the past two years. Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants has given me a touchstone to reality. Clive Friedman Upper Sandusky, Ohio
Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants is small, its inexpensive and most often does more good than a long talk with a good friend because even your best friend doesnt really know how you feel or understand what is really happening. Daniel Natural BC, Canada
Now I spend less time in a panic because I know what I run from and where I run to and why. Tom Dewier near Ellis, KS
Examples of quotes and advice in
Custody Case Killers & Boosters
(Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants)
Dollars worth of time on a $.10 decision.586. If the children live in more than one home, many favorite toys will need to be duplicated.
587. Weak is a person who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong is a person who forces his actions to control his thoughts.
588. Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness. James Thurber
589. The road to success is always under construction, and is littered with parking places.
590. Dont spend a
591. Budget for visits. No matter what the reason for the distance. It is the parents responsibility to make sure enough money is allotted for bus, train or plane fares.
592. The best things in Life are not things.
593. Fear is the illusion that creates the feeling of separateness - the false sense of isolation that exists only in your imagination.
594. Forget about keeping track of which clothes belong at which house.
595. You have only one life. You can spend it laughing or crying.
596. You dont get to choose how youre going to die or when. You can only decide how youre going to live.
597. If your children live in a different city than you do, subscribe to the local news paper in their town. It will help you keep up with what is happening around them.
1447. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get what you wanted.
1448. Your character is your destiny.
1449. One cat at the mouse hole prevents 100 mice from entering. Sun Tsu
1450. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
1451. Dont make a permanent decision because of a temporary situation.
1452. In disagreements, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
1453. Others who disagree with us may not be wrong, bad or evil.
1454. Mind your own business.
1455. When someone ask you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, Why do you want to know?
1456. Take a lesson from quantum physics. When you look at something your attention or observation changes it. What you choose to notice in the people and events going on around you alters what occurs- even before you decide what response you will make. Never underestimate the power of noticing.
1457. The three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
11/06/2008
Since March 1992