Example of specific situations examined:

My ex took my child to a therapist without my permission, is that legal?

The simple answer: Unless the court order prohibits one or both of the parents from seeking psychological observation or treatment for the child or specifies that the other parent must be advised or give consent, either parent may do so.

The real issue here is why you are concerned.

It is upsetting when you feel threatened by something the other parent does with your child.

It will help you if you can determine if your child will come to any harm by seeing a therapist. If you are certain your child is not in danger but you still feel uncomfortable you should consider why you feel the way you do.

This happens for several reasons:

1. You always made this kind of decision as the other parent was uninterested or unavailable.
2. Decisions  had been a joint parental effort with your child's needs the paramount issue.
3. You were never consulted and are tired of not having your concerns for your child considered.
4. You were not concerned in the past but want to be more involved in your child's life now.
5. You feel the other parent is building some kind of case against you using your child.

If you feel you are under fire and need constant help on changing situations, the Win Your Child Custody War manual is what you need.

Win Your Child Custody War works! Its everything you need to be aware, up to date and informed about current attitudes in the custody arena. It insulates you from being overwhelmed with issues that have nothing to do with your case. A whole new perspective to anticipate and overcome normal challenges and unexpected ambushes. If you can't get them to add this question to cases settled out of court, this is the help you need. Effective day-to-day steps to make sure you win custody.

• Child's Child Custody Bill of Rights
• Parent's Child Custody Bill of Rights
• False Accusations of Child Abuse
• Grandparent Custody of Children
• Parental Abduction
• Parental Alienation Syndrome
• Status Quo
• Supervised Visitation
• Child Support
• Denial of Visitation